Download PDFOn 15 March, Memeza (GBV response), funded by Vukile, held an event to empower women at the Victor Ndlazilwane Hall in Daveyton Mall. Dr. Reneilwe Magoshi, a survivor of gender-based violence (GBV), was invited to speak. She shared her story of overcoming GBV and her journey to becoming a PhD graduate from Unisa.
Dr. Magoshi said, “My story began 21 years ago when I was in a relationship. Even though I went through all that, I feel victorious for overcoming it. I am now the voice of the voiceless. I am a mother of six, and my experience has made me ask the question: how do you raise a boy? How do you deal with anger, gender stereotypes, and feelings of inferiority?” She stressed the importance of unity and love, explaining that public services often judge GBV victims, which can lead to self-judgment.
Phumzile Malinga, chairperson of Isibani Sesizwe, was also a speaker. She talked about the importance of women making the right choices. “Marriage is not an achievement; it’s a blessing. Society needs to stop making women feel inferior for being unmarried. Women should learn to care for themselves because you can’t give to others if you’re empty. Don’t just exist, live!”
An anonymous lady from the Traditional Healer’s Organisation (THO) in Daveyton attended and shared her thoughts. She found the event helpful, especially for mothers. It taught her not to compare her work or finances with others. She plans to use the lessons to raise her children better and take care of herself.
Sweetness Mqikela, an organiser with Memeza and secretary of the Daveyton CPF, shared her views on the event. “The aim of this event was to raise awareness in different communities and show women they are not alone. It was a success because now people know that Memeza and Vukile are available to help. Whenever they face GBV, they know where to turn.”
The event ended with dancing and exercises, creating a lively and enjoyable atmosphere for everyone.
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