Download PDFBy promoting a great understanding, acceptance and empowerment, we can work together and create a more equitable and just society for all LGBTQI+ individuals, regardless of their gender identity.
One of the main concerns is the lack of acceptance by families and communities. Many LGBTQI individuals in the Free State face a lot of rejection, harassment, or even violence from their loved ones and people from the outside. The rejection can also lead to homelessness as some LGBTQI individuals are forced to leave their homes because of their gender identity.
A lot of LGBTQI youth in the Free State still face the same old issues that gay people face. They are unwanted and some of them are bullied, raped – especially lesbians – and threatened by people who are against the LGBTQI individuals. Young LGBTQI individuals in the city of Welkom need to hide their identities from their families and even at school.
Sylvester Ralengau, 29, a resident of Welkom, says that “Because I was born this way, I have learned that not everyone will like me for who I am, so I just have to feed myself with that love. You focus on building yourself. What people say does not really mean anything to me. I see them as zero challenges as I can manage criticism, bullying, and hatred.”
Ralengau continues, saying “a lot of people lack information about the rainbow community, and it sometimes results in hate, and that hate leads to people taking matters into their own hands, like killing people for being gay.”
When one undergoes realisation and acceptance of their gender identity and sexual orientation, it can bring a sense of liberation and relief for them. Acceptance is important because having a supportive network of friends and family, connecting with others who share similar experiences and identities, can all play a crucial role in this journey of self-discovery.
Rethabile Mosimane, 21, who is a student at Motheo TVET College says that “My experience has been a mix of challenges. Growing up, I faced struggles with self-acceptance and navigating a world that did not always understand or accept me. However, it’s been a journey of self-discovery and growth, and I am grateful for the love and acceptance of family members who have supported me along the way.”
By working together, communities can create a more inclusive and supportive environment for LGBTQI+ individuals in the Free State and beyond.
This article is an opinion piece submitted on 29 March 2025. The views expressed by the author do not necessarily reflect those of Karibu! Online or Khanya College. You may republish this article, so long as you credit the authors and Karibu! Online (www.Karibu.org.za), and do not change the text. Please include a link back to the original article.
